Child Rearing
The psychologists have argued that there are many different variations of parenting styles. A parenting style is a way to describe how a parent rears their children. There are three child rearing styles.
Authoritarian parents, Permissive parents, and Authoritative parents.
The Authoritarians parents on the way that they rear their children indicate that their children are not allowed to think freely or make decision on their own, but they are supposed to have problems with thinking of themselves. Permissive parent lets the children having control. All the rules are indulgent, as result the children don’t recognize the rules that they have broken, they know that no matter what they are doing-right or wrong- important is they will not be punished.
Authoritative style is my prefer choice. Authoritative rearing style, generally exercise a pronounced control when it’s necessary, while they explain why they act like that, and encourage children to be free, and how they think about any issue. For example, a child who spreads his own toys on floor may be told not to do this because “Someone could trip on them and get hurt and the toys might be damaged. They feel assertive reinforcing this style of rearing in their children. They respect the children’s interests, opinions and teach them to be responsible, also rewarding them. For example, they give choices to them : for toddler the choice may be “red shirts or strip shirts”, while older child the choice might be “ apple, orange or banana.”
Authoritative parents interweave control with encouragement and love. This makes children to be self-reliant, want their parents are expected the children to perform and carry out their duties in family. For example, “ who will mop or who will carry out the trash.”Also, authoritative parents know when the children are meeting expectations and when it causes on their parent’s displeasure which risks to pursue some others goals. For example, the children seem openly, reasonable, self-reliant, self –controlled, exploratory, and content.
However, psychologists that are deal with studies have raised some difficulty issues, which apparently depends between child and parent’s temperament. It is not much easier to choice the child rearing, unless it is suitable to the child’s temperament. For example, a easy children is likely to possess an authoritative attitude from their parents. This is very significant based on our experience.